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1·That means not always making yourself right or clever and the other person wrong or stupid.

这意味着不要总是让自己变得“正确”或“聪明”，而让别人变得“错误”或“愚蠢”。

2·How do you do this without directly asking the other person?

你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?

3·We do not need to envy any other person, for our existence is unique.

我们没必要妒忌其他任何人，因为我们的存在是独一无二的。

4·It will soften your speech so that you can pose the question without offending the other person.

它会很好地柔化你的言语，这样你就可以在不冒犯其他人的情况下提出自己的问题。

5·This will make you sound confident, and it'll make it easier for the other person to understand you.

这会让你听起来自信，还会让别人更容易理解你。

6·Don't decide the purpose of the other person by your guessing.

不要凭猜测来判定他人的目的。

7·It may also depend on your relationship with the other person.

这也可能取决于你和对方的关系。

8·Another way to end a conversation is to make it easy for the other person to leave.

结束对话的另一种方式是让对方自如地离开。

9·Ask the other person, What can I do to help you? and be glad to do it.

问另一个人，“我能帮你做什么？”并乐意这么做。

10·Either you or the other person may need to continue an activity such as working or shopping.

你或对方可能需要继续某项活动，如工作或购物。

别人

1·How do you do this without directly asking the other person?

你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?

2·This will make you sound confident, and it'll make it easier for the other person to understand you.

这会让你听起来自信，还会让别人更容易理解你。

3·The very notion that the other person is lacking something is detrimental to their healing process.

认为别人是缺乏什么的，这样的观念对于他们的疗愈过程是有害的。

4·Whether the other person is interested or not, you'll never know unless you ask.

不管别人是否对你有兴趣，除非你去问他，否则你永远不知道。

5·You find some truth in what the other person is saying, even if his criticism of you seems unfair or his point of view is very different from yours.

从别人的诉说中，你会发现一些真相，即使他的批评在你看来并不公平或者他与你的观点根本就是南辕北辙。

其他人

1·It will soften your speech so that you can pose the question without offending the other person.

它会很好地柔化你的言语，这样你就可以在不冒犯其他人的情况下提出自己的问题。

2·Lesson: We have to realize that security is everyone's responsibility, not the other person's.

经验教训：我们不得不认识到安全是每个人的职责，不是其他人的。

3·Turn away from the computer and directly towards the other person : your computer can steal your attention from the person you are holding a conversation with, don't let it.

“不再把脸直接对着电脑屏幕，而是直接面向其他人”：你的电脑会偷走你的注意力，让你无法专心与人谈话。不要这样做。

4·In either case, problems like these are not about the other person, they're about us.

无论是什么情况，像这样的问题都不是因为其他人，而是我们自己。

5·But we also say thank you because we want the other person to know we value what they've done for us and, maybe, encourage them to help us again in the future.

但我们跟别人说谢谢是因为我们想其他人知道我们珍惜他们为我们所做的一切，或许，鼓励他们在未来继续帮助我们。